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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-9329</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 16:26:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Belief, Credibility and Trust - You might be the best expert in the world but people need to know they can rely on you.

I love this one. In my opinion, that is the step a lot of people skip. For example, Chris mentioned that he provides these solutions to his clients as &quot;Authority Blogging&quot;. These clients are happy to pay him for this information. However, he also doesn&#039;t mind sharing a version of this idea with his readers at no cost to them. This in my mind helps to create the trust so necessary for online readers. 

A lot of people (perhaps because of an earlier experience) approach online transactions with trepidation. Whether or not it&#039;s fair they sometimes assume that they are going to get scammed. This is an opinion that anyone hoping to make money online has to overcome. Thanks Chris for giving us all a way to do that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Belief, Credibility and Trust &#8211; You might be the best expert in the world but people need to know they can rely on you.</p>
<p>I love this one. In my opinion, that is the step a lot of people skip. For example, Chris mentioned that he provides these solutions to his clients as &#8220;Authority Blogging&#8221;. These clients are happy to pay him for this information. However, he also doesn&#8217;t mind sharing a version of this idea with his readers at no cost to them. This in my mind helps to create the trust so necessary for online readers. </p>
<p>A lot of people (perhaps because of an earlier experience) approach online transactions with trepidation. Whether or not it&#8217;s fair they sometimes assume that they are going to get scammed. This is an opinion that anyone hoping to make money online has to overcome. Thanks Chris for giving us all a way to do that.</p>
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		<title>By: Jamie</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19811</link>
		<dc:creator>Jamie</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Jun 2008 16:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Belief, Credibility and Trust - You might be the best expert in the world but people need to know they can rely on you.

I love this one. In my opinion, that is the step a lot of people skip. For example, Chris mentioned that he provides these solutions to his clients as &quot;Authority Blogging&quot;. These clients are happy to pay him for this information. However, he also doesn&#039;t mind sharing a version of this idea with his readers at no cost to them. This in my mind helps to create the trust so necessary for online readers. 

A lot of people (perhaps because of an earlier experience) approach online transactions with trepidation. Whether or not it&#039;s fair they sometimes assume that they are going to get scammed. This is an opinion that anyone hoping to make money online has to overcome. Thanks Chris for giving us all a way to do that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Belief, Credibility and Trust &#8211; You might be the best expert in the world but people need to know they can rely on you.</p>
<p>I love this one. In my opinion, that is the step a lot of people skip. For example, Chris mentioned that he provides these solutions to his clients as &#8220;Authority Blogging&#8221;. These clients are happy to pay him for this information. However, he also doesn&#8217;t mind sharing a version of this idea with his readers at no cost to them. This in my mind helps to create the trust so necessary for online readers. </p>
<p>A lot of people (perhaps because of an earlier experience) approach online transactions with trepidation. Whether or not it&#8217;s fair they sometimes assume that they are going to get scammed. This is an opinion that anyone hoping to make money online has to overcome. Thanks Chris for giving us all a way to do that.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam King</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-9277</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 02:45:41 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article Chris. I recently found your site and was scouting the archives when I came across this one. I&#039;ve recently launched a new site and am working to find that Flagship Content. I was wondering when is the right time to do a work like an e-book? I guess I&#039;m wondering at what point are you established enough for others to view your e-book as something they need. Thanks for the great posts. I learn a lot each time! Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article Chris. I recently found your site and was scouting the archives when I came across this one. I&#8217;ve recently launched a new site and am working to find that Flagship Content. I was wondering when is the right time to do a work like an e-book? I guess I&#8217;m wondering at what point are you established enough for others to view your e-book as something they need. Thanks for the great posts. I learn a lot each time! Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Adam King</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19810</link>
		<dc:creator>Adam King</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Fri, 20 Jun 2008 02:45:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Great article Chris. I recently found your site and was scouting the archives when I came across this one. I&#039;ve recently launched a new site and am working to find that Flagship Content. I was wondering when is the right time to do a work like an e-book? I guess I&#039;m wondering at what point are you established enough for others to view your e-book as something they need. Thanks for the great posts. I learn a lot each time! Thanks.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Great article Chris. I recently found your site and was scouting the archives when I came across this one. I&#8217;ve recently launched a new site and am working to find that Flagship Content. I was wondering when is the right time to do a work like an e-book? I guess I&#8217;m wondering at what point are you established enough for others to view your e-book as something they need. Thanks for the great posts. I learn a lot each time! Thanks.</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Garrett</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-9027</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Garrett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 10:26:01 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Tech - If you choose the right place and are helpful and write useful posts, then you should be able to make a great start

@Mother Earth - Indeed, I think too often we try to put people right where they should be all at once rather than meet them where they are and show them the way gently :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Tech &#8211; If you choose the right place and are helpful and write useful posts, then you should be able to make a great start</p>
<p>@Mother Earth &#8211; Indeed, I think too often we try to put people right where they should be all at once rather than meet them where they are and show them the way gently <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Chris Garrett</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19809</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Garrett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Sun, 01 Jun 2008 10:26:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Tech - If you choose the right place and are helpful and write useful posts, then you should be able to make a great start

@Mother Earth - Indeed, I think too often we try to put people right where they should be all at once rather than meet them where they are and show them the way gently :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Tech &#8211; If you choose the right place and are helpful and write useful posts, then you should be able to make a great start</p>
<p>@Mother Earth &#8211; Indeed, I think too often we try to put people right where they should be all at once rather than meet them where they are and show them the way gently <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Mother Earth</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8997</link>
		<dc:creator>Mother Earth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 03:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like the part that says do they have any preconceptions? I think that is huge in my work and something I could speak to more when I write or sell. It&#039;s partly understanding the competition too. When clients qoute readers digest as a source for what they might know about nutrition or something else for that matter, I question their know how - yet it gives me a great clue on how to educate them and assist them to understanding more. It&#039;s having the grace not to judge them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the part that says do they have any preconceptions? I think that is huge in my work and something I could speak to more when I write or sell. It&#8217;s partly understanding the competition too. When clients qoute readers digest as a source for what they might know about nutrition or something else for that matter, I question their know how &#8211; yet it gives me a great clue on how to educate them and assist them to understanding more. It&#8217;s having the grace not to judge them.</p>
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		<title>By: Mother Earth</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19808</link>
		<dc:creator>Mother Earth</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Thu, 29 May 2008 03:05:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I like the part that says do they have any preconceptions? I think that is huge in my work and something I could speak to more when I write or sell. It&#039;s partly understanding the competition too. When clients qoute readers digest as a source for what they might know about nutrition or something else for that matter, I question their know how - yet it gives me a great clue on how to educate them and assist them to understanding more. It&#039;s having the grace not to judge them.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I like the part that says do they have any preconceptions? I think that is huge in my work and something I could speak to more when I write or sell. It&#8217;s partly understanding the competition too. When clients qoute readers digest as a source for what they might know about nutrition or something else for that matter, I question their know how &#8211; yet it gives me a great clue on how to educate them and assist them to understanding more. It&#8217;s having the grace not to judge them.</p>
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		<title>By: Tech blog</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8971</link>
		<dc:creator>Tech blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 12:41:20 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey nice post and did definitely give me an idea! I have been a programmer for a while and i am thinking of doing some freelance programming, so this article will certainly help!

Thanks a lot. You have helped me immensely and would definitely keep you posted!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey nice post and did definitely give me an idea! I have been a programmer for a while and i am thinking of doing some freelance programming, so this article will certainly help!</p>
<p>Thanks a lot. You have helped me immensely and would definitely keep you posted!</p>
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		<title>By: Tech blog</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19807</link>
		<dc:creator>Tech blog</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 12:41:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>hey nice post and did definitely give me an idea! I have been a programmer for a while and i am thinking of doing some freelance programming, so this article will certainly help!

Thanks a lot. You have helped me immensely and would definitely keep you posted!</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>hey nice post and did definitely give me an idea! I have been a programmer for a while and i am thinking of doing some freelance programming, so this article will certainly help!</p>
<p>Thanks a lot. You have helped me immensely and would definitely keep you posted!</p>
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		<title>By: Chris Garrett</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8958</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Garrett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 11:15:54 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Adam - Thanks Adam, it does work for me and I don&#039;t think I have the personality to do cold calling or more obvious sales well.

@Darlene - Coaching is ideal for this approach, particularly if your clients would allow you to talk about them

@Michael - Thanks for the link, great stuff. We often seem to be in tune, we should work together at some point :)

@Steve - I can see this kind of approach working very well with real estate as there is both the expertise and the personal interaction elements that are vital to reassure home buyers

@Chuck - 50 years! I bet you have loads to teach the rest of us :)

@Loraleigh - People worry that it is too soft an approach but you can always ramp up a little, I think that is far better than being in your face as a starting point isn&#039;t it? :)

@Lyndon - Nice, can always count on you for a thought-provoking brain nugget :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Adam &#8211; Thanks Adam, it does work for me and I don&#8217;t think I have the personality to do cold calling or more obvious sales well.</p>
<p>@Darlene &#8211; Coaching is ideal for this approach, particularly if your clients would allow you to talk about them</p>
<p>@Michael &#8211; Thanks for the link, great stuff. We often seem to be in tune, we should work together at some point <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Steve &#8211; I can see this kind of approach working very well with real estate as there is both the expertise and the personal interaction elements that are vital to reassure home buyers</p>
<p>@Chuck &#8211; 50 years! I bet you have loads to teach the rest of us <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Loraleigh &#8211; People worry that it is too soft an approach but you can always ramp up a little, I think that is far better than being in your face as a starting point isn&#8217;t it? <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Lyndon &#8211; Nice, can always count on you for a thought-provoking brain nugget <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Chris Garrett</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19806</link>
		<dc:creator>Chris Garrett</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 11:15:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>@Adam - Thanks Adam, it does work for me and I don&#039;t think I have the personality to do cold calling or more obvious sales well.

@Darlene - Coaching is ideal for this approach, particularly if your clients would allow you to talk about them

@Michael - Thanks for the link, great stuff. We often seem to be in tune, we should work together at some point :)

@Steve - I can see this kind of approach working very well with real estate as there is both the expertise and the personal interaction elements that are vital to reassure home buyers

@Chuck - 50 years! I bet you have loads to teach the rest of us :)

@Loraleigh - People worry that it is too soft an approach but you can always ramp up a little, I think that is far better than being in your face as a starting point isn&#039;t it? :)

@Lyndon - Nice, can always count on you for a thought-provoking brain nugget :)</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>@Adam &#8211; Thanks Adam, it does work for me and I don&#8217;t think I have the personality to do cold calling or more obvious sales well.</p>
<p>@Darlene &#8211; Coaching is ideal for this approach, particularly if your clients would allow you to talk about them</p>
<p>@Michael &#8211; Thanks for the link, great stuff. We often seem to be in tune, we should work together at some point <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Steve &#8211; I can see this kind of approach working very well with real estate as there is both the expertise and the personal interaction elements that are vital to reassure home buyers</p>
<p>@Chuck &#8211; 50 years! I bet you have loads to teach the rest of us <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Loraleigh &#8211; People worry that it is too soft an approach but you can always ramp up a little, I think that is far better than being in your face as a starting point isn&#8217;t it? <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
<p>@Lyndon &#8211; Nice, can always count on you for a thought-provoking brain nugget <img src='http://www.chrisg.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' /> </p>
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		<title>By: Lyndon Antcliff</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8954</link>
		<dc:creator>Lyndon Antcliff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 07:55:38 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes to catch something, it&#039;s best not to appear to chase it.</description>
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		<title>By: Lyndon Antcliff</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19805</link>
		<dc:creator>Lyndon Antcliff</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Tue, 27 May 2008 07:55:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Sometimes to catch something, it&#039;s best not to appear to chase it.</description>
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		<title>By: Loraleigh Vance</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8952</link>
		<dc:creator>Loraleigh Vance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 21:19:43 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was never comfortable being a pushy sales type. I was always just there, answering questions and providing information, no charge. It&#039;s always a win-win situation. Thanks for reinforcing that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was never comfortable being a pushy sales type. I was always just there, answering questions and providing information, no charge. It&#8217;s always a win-win situation. Thanks for reinforcing that.</p>
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		<title>By: Loraleigh Vance</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19804</link>
		<dc:creator>Loraleigh Vance</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 21:19:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I was never comfortable being a pushy sales type. I was always just there, answering questions and providing information, no charge. It&#039;s always a win-win situation. Thanks for reinforcing that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I was never comfortable being a pushy sales type. I was always just there, answering questions and providing information, no charge. It&#8217;s always a win-win situation. Thanks for reinforcing that.</p>
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		<title>By: Chuck Bartok</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8948</link>
		<dc:creator>Chuck Bartok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 19:28:45 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greta article. When I arrived on the net a few years ago, I thought was a wasteland of Spammers and Novice Salesmen. Learning to move around it is a pleasure to see others realize the principles of Relationship Marketing which I have used off-line for 50 years.

Thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greta article. When I arrived on the net a few years ago, I thought was a wasteland of Spammers and Novice Salesmen. Learning to move around it is a pleasure to see others realize the principles of Relationship Marketing which I have used off-line for 50 years.</p>
<p>Thank you</p>
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		<title>By: Chuck Bartok</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-19803</link>
		<dc:creator>Chuck Bartok</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 19:28:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Greta article. When I arrived on the net a few years ago, I thought was a wasteland of Spammers and Novice Salesmen. Learning to move around it is a pleasure to see others realize the principles of Relationship Marketing which I have used off-line for 50 years.

Thank you</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Greta article. When I arrived on the net a few years ago, I thought was a wasteland of Spammers and Novice Salesmen. Learning to move around it is a pleasure to see others realize the principles of Relationship Marketing which I have used off-line for 50 years.</p>
<p>Thank you</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Smith</title>
		<link>http://www.chrisg.com/attracting-customers-without-selling/#comment-8947</link>
		<dc:creator>Steve Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 16:57:47 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris

You are describing the &quot;soft sell&quot; technique used in sales. You sell by getting yourself know in your market and building your business through word of mouth or referrals. Referrals coming from people that you have helped or know of your services. This is totally opposite of the rest of my comment below.

I get flooded with email from IM gurus selling their next 5K dollar bootcamp or their monthly subscription for 297.00 a month or whatever they can sell. I will assume they provide that much value.
But I generally don&#039;t buy something from a 6 page sales letter I prefer to know the person first.

But I have always wondered....if the knowledge they are selling is so valuable....why don&#039;t they keep it to themselves and be the only ones making the money?...thats another subject or article.

My wife has built her real estate business through the exact methods you described. By first building trust, credibility, experience and having a approachable personality.

I prefer the soft sell, and the information you provided in your article is a great example of how to sell yourself without selling. By providing something of value first.</description>
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<p>You are describing the &#8220;soft sell&#8221; technique used in sales. You sell by getting yourself know in your market and building your business through word of mouth or referrals. Referrals coming from people that you have helped or know of your services. This is totally opposite of the rest of my comment below.</p>
<p>I get flooded with email from IM gurus selling their next 5K dollar bootcamp or their monthly subscription for 297.00 a month or whatever they can sell. I will assume they provide that much value.<br />
But I generally don&#8217;t buy something from a 6 page sales letter I prefer to know the person first.</p>
<p>But I have always wondered&#8230;.if the knowledge they are selling is so valuable&#8230;.why don&#8217;t they keep it to themselves and be the only ones making the money?&#8230;thats another subject or article.</p>
<p>My wife has built her real estate business through the exact methods you described. By first building trust, credibility, experience and having a approachable personality.</p>
<p>I prefer the soft sell, and the information you provided in your article is a great example of how to sell yourself without selling. By providing something of value first.</p>
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		<title>By: Steve Smith</title>
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		<dc:creator>Steve Smith</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Mon, 26 May 2008 16:57:00 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>Chris

You are describing the &quot;soft sell&quot; technique used in sales. You sell by getting yourself know in your market and building your business through word of mouth or referrals. Referrals coming from people that you have helped or know of your services. This is totally opposite of the rest of my comment below.

I get flooded with email from IM gurus selling their next 5K dollar bootcamp or their monthly subscription for 297.00 a month or whatever they can sell. I will assume they provide that much value.
But I generally don&#039;t buy something from a 6 page sales letter I prefer to know the person first.

But I have always wondered....if the knowledge they are selling is so valuable....why don&#039;t they keep it to themselves and be the only ones making the money?...thats another subject or article.

My wife has built her real estate business through the exact methods you described. By first building trust, credibility, experience and having a approachable personality.

I prefer the soft sell, and the information you provided in your article is a great example of how to sell yourself without selling. By providing something of value first.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>Chris</p>
<p>You are describing the &#8220;soft sell&#8221; technique used in sales. You sell by getting yourself know in your market and building your business through word of mouth or referrals. Referrals coming from people that you have helped or know of your services. This is totally opposite of the rest of my comment below.</p>
<p>I get flooded with email from IM gurus selling their next 5K dollar bootcamp or their monthly subscription for 297.00 a month or whatever they can sell. I will assume they provide that much value.<br />
But I generally don&#8217;t buy something from a 6 page sales letter I prefer to know the person first.</p>
<p>But I have always wondered&#8230;.if the knowledge they are selling is so valuable&#8230;.why don&#8217;t they keep it to themselves and be the only ones making the money?&#8230;thats another subject or article.</p>
<p>My wife has built her real estate business through the exact methods you described. By first building trust, credibility, experience and having a approachable personality.</p>
<p>I prefer the soft sell, and the information you provided in your article is a great example of how to sell yourself without selling. By providing something of value first.</p>
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